He cheated : by More by Anonymous User
submitted Monday Apr 27th, 2009
What do you think
I was going to a marriage counselor who happened to be a minister at a local church. I've been depressed since I found out my husband had an affair with a co-worker and still talked to her even after he said he stop.
During one of our sessions the minister stated he wanted to do me. I thought he was joking so ignored him. Next thing I know while we were on his cough in an office he pulled my panties over and began to finger me (may I add made me cum), ate me (which was very pleasing), and then entered me until he climaxed.
The experience took me off guard and felt GOOD. I love my husband and want our marriage to work but I just can't get over the affair he had. I just want forgive and forget his affair so I can get over my depression.
Comments on He cheated
He Cheated : And what about your husband? Have you told him of this experience? Will you give him time to forgive and forget too? As for the minister, I think he needs to be outed for what he is and that is a manipulator. He took advantage of you. Seek legal counsel but I wouldnt see him or attend his church again. by angst on Wednesday May 20th, 2009
Understood : I too have a husband who cheated with a co-worker. He didn't stop when he said he would. I ended up cheating as well, but years later. I think my main question when my husband cheated was "is there something wrong with ME?" That type of insecurity combined with the attention and affection of another man can be intoxicating. I can see how this would have happened though I would have expected your minister to behave better. You will have to find a way to move past your husband's affair. Unfortunately, you will never forget it. XOXO by AnaisDeBeauvoir on Saturday May 30th, 2009
sad betrayal : i think you need to let the husband know how you feel and not keep secrets to wrongs don\'t make a right remember that i wish you the best by Anonymous Commentor on Sunday Jan 17th, 2010
KBMSwzklVf : I didn\'t know where to find this info then kaobom it was here. by on Thursday Nov 17th, 2011
wxXGhBKBMoFGsx : TIME. There are no short cuts so don\'t try to find them. You won\'t find them in alcohol, patyring, or another man\'s pants. Spend time alone even if you hate to. This will help you re-discover who you are and why you fell for such a jerk. Also, find a friend or local group of divorcees that meet so you can be around others in your situation. Yes you can talk to your married and never-been-married friends/relatives, but they truly have no clue what you\'re going through. Being around those who do will speed your healing. Make a list of everything you are losing with the end of your marriage (good and bad). Cry over the stuff you\'ll miss. Feel over excitement over the things you won\'t. Write a Ball and Chain list. It\'s like a Bucket List except it\'s everything you want to accomplish before getting into another relationship which will steal time away from you. Do you want to travel? FInish school? Get in better shape? Attend a dinner party as a single in a room full of couples without feeling intimidated or uncomfortable? Make it a long list and stick do completing it before finding a new man. Make a list re-evaluating who you are and who you want to become. Work toward that.I hope this helps. These are the things I\'ve done since I divorced who I\'d always thought was the love of my life but he turned out to be a compulsive liar and cheater. So far it\'s working. I have good days and bad, but overall, I\'ve learned to be so much happier because he can no longer make me cry. I\'ve taken the reins. by on Tuesday Apr 24th, 2012
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